sorry about the posts where i did that. or sorry that im not doing that a ton now. they were mostly on the other website i guess. im conflicted about it
one thing that helped me stop saying sorry was finding ways to thank the person instead. if it was a long response between a message, i would just say "thanks for your patience" or if i jacked something up i would say "thanks for being so understanding" and ive never had anyone really react negatively to this method